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Someone is pressuring or controlling me

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, get emergency help right away.

Right now

  • Make space when you can. Move toward other people or staff.
  • You don't have to announce your plan.
  • Bring in a safe adult or professional support.

Words you can use

“I've changed my mind.”

“They kept pressuring me after I tried to stop.”

“I need help leaving this.”

Who to bring in

  • a safe adult
  • someone you trust
  • a counselor, teacher, coach, nurse or other professional
  • another person, if the first one doesn't help

What to remember

Giving in under pressure is not the same as choosing freely.