Sometimes the people who could help start getting pushed out:
- being told to hide messages, places or plans
- hearing that friends or family are "against you" or "jealous"
- time with others treated as disloyal
- relying on one person for rides, money, attention or belonging
Normal arguments with family or friends aren't the same thing.
The counter-move: add a door. Tell one more safe person. That's never betrayal.
Doors
