Doors Closing
Sometimes one person slowly becomes the only one — the only person you talk to, the only ride, the only one who "gets" you.
It can look like:
- putting down your other friends or family
- plans that always end up private
- being asked to keep the relationship itself secret
The opposite move: add a door. Tell one more person. Keep one more friendship. Stay in one more public place. Adding a door is strength, not betrayal.
Doors