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When It Keeps Happening

The Slow Turn

Iris, your guide

The Slow Turn

Some patterns start small and grow. Things you might notice changing over time:

  • Size — requests get bigger.
  • How often — rare becomes regular.
  • Speed — less time to decide.
  • Secrecy — more "don't tell anyone."
  • The cost of no — saying no brings more anger, guilt or pressure.

If each step is small, each step can be explained. Look at the direction, not just the step.

A direction is information. It isn't a prediction of what will happen.

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