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When It's Your Friend

If They Aren't Ready

Iris, your guide
Iris says: “Staying close can matter more than having the right words.”

Your friend might get angry, pull away, say nothing's wrong, defend the person, go back, change their mind, or not want help yet.

None of that means you failed. It doesn't mean they're fine, either.

You can keep the door open when it's safe for you, without chasing, pressuring, or trying to make the decision for them.

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