How trust gets earned
Trust usually grows over time. A person you can trust generally:
- can hear "no"
- doesn't need you to keep secrets to stay close
- doesn't punish you for having other people in your life
- doesn't demand access to everything
- lets you disagree
- respects your privacy
- doesn't use fear to keep you close
- wants you to have other support
- can handle questions
- is pretty consistent over time
Nobody gets every moment right. Watch what keeps happening.
Optional activity · nothing is saved
Think of someone you trust.
Silently, without typing anything: which of these fit them? (Tap any; nothing is saved.)
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